I spent $500 at the dentist today. It was an emergency and there was nothing I could do. Things like this can be really upsetting. I worked hard to get my emergency fund at $1000 dollars (It took me 5 years!) and now I have to rebuild it. Taking a step or two down the savings ladder is really depressing. Its times like this that I have to remind myself of a few things:
- Thank goodness that I live in a place that I can spend money at a dentist that can fix my problem! This is something that was have caused me to lose a tooth if I lived in a different age or place, or possibly my life. Luckily, after a few hours and (actually pretty painful) simple procedure my problem is cured. A few hours of pain
- I have the money to pay for this. After, all what is an emergency fund for if not for an emergency? Yes, it is annoying to have to empty out your emergency fund account, yes, it is depressing to have to “rebuild” the account in the next few month, yes, it is frustrating that I may have to push off my new computer purchase for a while so that I can double-down on putting money into my emergency fund, BUT I was able to pay the entire dental bill on the spot.
- Since I don’t make a lot of money it took me a really long time to build up my emergency fund (5 years! as I was unemployed and then underemployed for a chunk of it) but at the same time it means that smaller emergencies can affect me more. The fact that I have this emergency fund is really a blessing. All my hard work paid off- now I won’t be in debt and have to pay interest on this bill. I wouldn’t want this one incident to affect me for longer than it has too.
- Obviously I wasn’t meant to have this money- but isn’t it great that I had the money to lose in the first place? I am grateful that This dental escapade does not mean another bill that I will have to pay over months. It doesn’t mean that I have to pay down a credit card balance (with interest!) over the next few months. It doesn’t mean that I have to decide which bill I will pay next month. It doesn’t mean I can’t buy anything that I need to buy. I am grateful that I was able to have the money to pay the dentist right away. I am grateful that I have this emergency fund to use for emergencies instead of having an event derail my financial plan for a while. And that is why it is SO important to have these savings put in the appropriate place- because while we cannot prevent emergencies from happening, we CAN make sure that the small emergencies don’t ruin us.