Let’s talk gifts.
Obviously, as a frugal mom (and someone who has been slowly starting to embrace anti-consumption), gifts are a thing.
But… that doesn’t mean we don’t do gifts (especially for Hanukkah, which we celebrate) for our kids.
But I am very careful and deliberate about the gifts we do buy/source.
I do my best to get gifts as cheaply as possible by doing all the frugal things.
(These are the highlights; you can read more in detail.)
- Stalk deal sites
- Use coupons
- Use cashback
- Get it for free if possible
- Make sure to save and budget in advance
But regarding the TYPE of gifts I request or buy here is where I stand:
I like to buy things that not only my kids will like, but that will also last and bring value to our family. That doesn’t mean that I won’t get them something that they really want, but I try to stay away from “pop culture” or viral items.
Here is what I suggest:
Big Items
Every so often, we buy (or source or request) a large toy that the whole family will enjoy and will hopefully be passed down. Examples include a toy kitchen, a nugget couch, a climbing set, a bike etc.
Outdoor Toys
This is really included in number 1, but as a screen-free family, we like to spend a lot of time outdoors. I like to get outdoor items that last ,and the whole family can use. For example, a water table, a swing, a playhouse, etc
Open-Ended Play/Stem Toys
I like to get toys that can be used again and again. Kits can be fun and have their use, but I try to prioritize long-lasting toys. Examples include Legos, magnetic tiles, and megablocks
Expansion Packs
One of the best ways to breathe life into new toys is to get more of the same or add-ons to existing toys. This makes the kids get excited about their old toys again. For example, if we have a train set, then getting new pieces or an expansion pack makes the whole set new.
Want some practical ideas? Here’s my 2025 Gift Guide
