11 Money Mistakes That Feel Normal—But Are Quietly Keeping You Broke

Despite your mother’s admonitions (would you jump off a building just because everyone is doing it?) sometimes we do things that everyone else does just because it’s so common and normal.

It’s crazy to think that so many people are getting things so very wrong.

Unfortunately, she was right, and nowhere is this more true than with personal finance.

“Everyone” might be doing it, but “everyone” is doing it wrong, and they are paying for it (literally and figuratively). These money mistakes feel normal because everyone is in the same boat, but they are keeping you broke and keeping you from living a happy, money-stress-free life. 

1. Overspending Beyond Their Means

It’s easy to fall into the trap of overspending, especially since we have credit cards, BNPL, and perfectly curated Instagram feeds that promote a perfect aesthetic.

But overspending typically leads to mounting debt and financial stress.

You need to live within your means, even if it means going without all the “normal” expenses. 

To avoid this mistake, create a realistic budget and stick to it. Prioritize your needs over wants and consider saving and investing for future goals.

Start budgeting now with this simple, printable budget planner, which makes it easy to track where every dollar goes. Download it free now. 

 

2. Not Budgeting or Tracking Expenses

Without a budget, it becomes challenging to manage your money effectively. 

I don’t care how you do it, but you need to create a budget that will help track your expenses, identify areas where you can cut back, and allocate funds for savings and investments.

A reasonable budget is the foundation of sound financial planning; you cannot do without it. 

You can use a budgeting app, you can pick one of the many budgeting methods available to you, you can use an Excel spreadsheet, you can even jot it down on a napkin, but you need to create a budget!

Shockingly, 67% of Americans don’t follow a budget.  It might be common and normal but it’s not good for you!

3. Ignoring High-Interest Debt

High-interest debt, such as credit card debt or private student loans, can quickly spiral out of control if left unaddressed.

Make it a priority to pay off high-interest debts as soon as possible. Consider consolidating loans or seeking lower-interest options to reduce the financial burden.

Research shows that over 25% of Americans have credit card debt with interest rates exceeding 20%. You need to have such loans cleared as fast as you can, as they can easily mess up your financial progress. 

Find refinancing options, dedicate more from your paycheck, find freelancing jobs …just anything that will help clear high-interest debts faster. 

4. Impulse Buying

Impulse buying can wreak havoc on your budget and financial progress. Unfortunately, it is a habit many people have, unknowingly. The ease of TikTok shopping and affilaite marketing on scoail media has made this even harder.

Influencers work very hard to make it seem that if you buy what they have your life will be better, calmer and happier. This isn’t true.  

Before making a purchase, especially for non-essential items, please take a moment to consider whether it’s a need or a want.

Practice self-control and delay gratification every time you are about to make a purchase. Your wallet and future will thank you.

Studies have shown that the average American spends $4500 annually on impulse purchases.

You want to think of what you would do with this money and find ways to curb impulse purchases. 

5. Not Saving for Emergencies

Unexpected expenses can crop up at any time. Not having a fund to cover you may mean taking high-interest loans or even selling essential items at throwaway prices. 

There is so much an emergency fund could cover. It could be car repairs, home repairs, medical emergencies, natural disasters, emergency travel, legal expenses, or a job loss.

Failing to save for emergencies can leave you financially vulnerable. Do you know that about 40% of Americans can’t cover a $400 emergency? 

Learn how to build an emergency fund and gain peace of mind. Start small, but make consistent contributions to build your emergency fund that can cover 3 to 6 months of your expenses. 

If you haven’t yet built your first $1,000 in savings, this is your sign. It’s easier than you think, especially with a plan and a little accountability. Join the $1,000 Savings Challenge and get the free kit to help you visualize, track, and celebrate every dollar saved.

 

6. Neglecting Retirement Savings

Planning for retirement should start early, but many people, delay or neglect this crucial aspect of financial security, thinking that it will be easier to save later on.

The sooner you start saving for retirement, the more secure your future will be. Contribute regularly to retirement accounts, for example, 401(k)s and IRAs, to secure your golden years.

By doing so, you won’t be among the 33% of Americans who have no retirement savings. Relying solely on Social Security may not provide the retirement lifestyle you desire.

7. Overusing Credit Cards

Credit cards can be useful when used wisely, but if you’re not careful you are going to rack up some hefty debt. 

Stick to a budget, pay your credit card balances in full each month, and avoid carrying a balance whenever possible.

The credit card balance of an average American is about $5,315. That’s a lot of money (imagine what that can do for your emergency fund or retirement savings!)

8. Not Investing for Long-term Goals

Saving alone is not enough to build wealth.

You need to be investing as well.

The first step towards that direction is to define your financial goals.

What are you investing for?

Retirement, your child’s education, or simply building wealth? Setting clear objectives will help you choose the right investment strategies.

One of the most significant advantages of long-term investing is the magic of compounding.

Over time, your money can grow exponentially, earning interest on both your initial investment and the interest it generates. This is how you grow wealth. 

The amount you should invest depends on your specific goals and financial situation. Make sure to adjust your strategy as your goals and circumstances change. 

9. Not Diversifying Investments

Putting all your money into a single investment can be risky.

Expand your portfolio by putting your money in a mix of real estate, stocks, bonds, and other viable investment options.

This strategy can help spread risk and improve your chances of earning consistent returns.

According to a study conducted by Vanguard,  diversification significantly improves risk-adjusted returns. 

Over ten years, a well-diversified portfolio outperformed concentrated investments in single asset classes.

For instance, in the turbulent markets of 2020, a diversified portfolio containing U.S. stocks, international stocks, and bonds had a lower drawdown than portfolios concentrated solely in U.S. stocks.

And never go all in on meme stocks or internet hype. Those investments are for people who can afford to lose money. If that’s not you, then stay far away. 

10. Borrowing From Retirement Accounts

Taking out money from your retirement accounts early, even if you are just “borrowing” it,  can have serious consequences, including taxes and penalties.

If it becomes a habit, you may end up with less than you need to sustain a comfortable retirement.

This may put you in many ugly situations, including working long hours in your old age. 

Look for different options, including drastic cost-cutting measure or getting another job, before doing that. 

11. Falling For Get-Rich-Quick Schemes

Get-rich-quick schemes promise quick wealth but often lead to financial losses.

Over 30% of Americans have been targeted by such schemes. Exercise caution and skepticism when encountering such opportunities.

Remember that building wealth is a gradual process that requires diligence and informed decision-making.

If the opportunity seems too good to be true, it probably is so do your research.

These schemes and scames come in new versions every other day, and people smarter than you have fallen for them. So be careful!

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